What level of violence for kids?

<p>When I game with my kids, there is a wide range of ages.  The oldest (age 13) likes exciting PG-13 movies, and has no problem with action-oriented violence, whether it is in role-playing, videogames or movies.<br /><br />However, my 11 year old daughter hates any violence, and gets very upset about anything she considers &quot;gross&quot;.<br /><br />My 10 year old son is fine with game-related combat.<br /><br />My youngest (7) is obviously too young for anything graphic.<br /><br /><br />So, how do you handle violence in your own family games?  </p>